“Stop discouraging the singles from getting married because you have a failed marriage” – Evang. Mike Bamiloye warns

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The founder of Mount Zion Faith Ministries, Evang. Mike Bamiloye has sent a message to those who have made it a mission to scare single ladies about getting married.

In a post made some days ago on Facebook, the gospel filmmaker said it is evil to downplay the marriage institution created by God because it wasn’t favorable to one person.

Mike Bamiloye further encouraged those who have failed marriages to take their broken homes to God; the only one who is able to mend the Institution He created as also willing to restore the happiness in it.

As at the time of gathering this report, the post shared has attracted more than 2000 reactions and hundreds of shares.

In his words; ‘If you had a failed marriage, the Lord can still heal your wounds and marriage life, and give you joy again. But don’t go about scaring and discouraging Young Ladies from getting married.

God is the Author of the marriage Institution.’

See some reactions by some Facebook users below;

Pstr Oluwayimika A. Adebayo; Simple truth. Because a person has issues in her marriage doesn’t mean others will have. I will enjoy my marriage again in the name of Jesus Christ

Alao Samuel Olamide’; Correct sir… Our marriage will be determined how much and how far we incline with the word of God… Very simple..

Some couple don’t Man their gate ,even if the whole of hell is released on your marriage,there is a technology in God that you can deploy to have a stress-free home

Jules Rika Amobi; Young ladies and men should remember that many marriages are still exciting and growing in Christ’s grace too! It’s a matter of look before you leap. God bless.

Theophilus Musa Teesong; I was almost running out of my head, but thank God I saw this message on time. Let me return home and think about settling down. Thank you for this sir.

Bamidele Aderonmu; I want to tagged all these emergency relationship and marriage Counsellors but it’s too early Blessing CEO TONTO DIKEH Daddy Freeze . God can still heal you guys when you give your life to Him

Honoured Praise; Thank u daddy.. they shouldn’t scare us jare.. I will marry, stay married and enjoy my marriage, amen

Evang. Mike Bamiloye reveals reasons many marriages don’t last

The founder of the Mount Zion Faith Ministries, Evang. Mike Bamiloye, on Monday, disclosed that many ladies are not prepared enough to be wives even at the age of 28.

The movie maker and producer disclosed this on his Instagram page, saying that many ladies nowadays “prepare more for the wedding day, than for the marriage life.”

“Many are not preparing enough to enter into marriage. Many are shallow in their knowledge of marriage. No deep studies on what marriage entails”

He further said, “Some ladies are too hasty and not ready to sit down and learn the principles of marital life.

“Many ladies are not qualified to be wives even at 28.”

He added that many of the ladies who are eager to marry do not know how to cook but are used to fast food at eateries, ice cream, and cooking noodles with boiled eggs.

Read full writeup below;

RED FLAG ALONG THE WAY.
I am so afraid of the Youths of this Generation. Many are not Preparing enough to enter into Marriage. Many are very Shallow in their knowledge of Marriage. They Prepare more for the Wedding Day, than for the Marriage Life. No Deep studies on what Marriage Entails.

They are too hasty and not Ready to Sit down and Learn the Principles of Marital Life. Many Ladies are not qualified to be WIFE even at 28.

They Can’t cook properly. They are used to Fast Food at the Eateries, and Ice Cream and Indomie and Spagetti plus boiled Eggs and Titus, and they spend six months studying the wedding Gowns and the accessories for the Bridal Trails.

AND THEY WANT TO MARRY.  My Dear Sister is 26, by she is still not yet a Wife Material. But she is Beautiful, But she can not cook. he is not Spiritually Strong in Prayers. And she has a shallow knowledge of the Word of God.

How would she withstand the spiritual challenges that comes against every home now? How would she take her stand in the Word of God against every wiles of the DEvil that blow against every Christian Home now?

Too materialistic and very little knowledge of Home Management. The Other time a friend of hers was going to her husband’s house,

She went with a big BOOK OF COOKERY, which was Published in UK. Unfortunately, there was no Recipes for the cooking of Nigerian food. Then I was told she downloaded some Applications on her Android phone on How To Cook.

She spent several months preparing for Wedding Day, But few moment to Study what Marriage Life is.

If LOVE IS BLIND AT COURTSHIP, IT IS MARRIAGE THAT WILL OPEN THE BLIND EYES. Now, Our Young Sisters are being taught HOW TO WALK OUT OF MARRIAGE.

Many of them are rushing in and they are being taught How To Rush Out of It when things are not Working out as Expected.

I AM AGAINST ABUSE TO WOMEN. I AM AGAINST ABUSE TO WIVES. A MAN THAT BEAT OR TORTURE HIS WIFE IS AN ANIMAL, UNFIT TO LIVE AMONG HUMAN. THE BIBLE SAYS, HE HAS DONE IT TO HIMSELF.and, THERE ARE ALSO MANY ABUSES GOING AGAINST MEN IN THE CLOSETS.

However, we are now having too many Breakings and Separations and Divorce among Children of God. No Endurance. No Respect. No Perseverance. No Patience. When things do not go as expected, it becomes INCOMPATIBILITY.

And our youths, especially Ladies are being taught to Walk out of the Marriages. So today, many Young Marriages are not fulfilled. Every Marriage has its rough edges. But you have to Sharpen the Rough-Edges.

Sister, when you were in Courtship, As a child of God, You ought to have noticed some little little devilish behaviour in the young man, Which the Holy spirit was pointing to you as Red Flag. But You were too much in Love.

You were too much impatience to get into marriage with him. Or, you noticed them, But you wished them away, As ordinary habits. What then was the meaning of Courtship? Was it not to Prayerfully keep watching along the way? And to eventually confirm if truly this is of God?

The Holy Spirit must have shown you many things you need to know to give you directions and Red Flags, But Love covered your eyes. Now Marriage has opened the eyes. Brother, all through the Courtship, You had noticed this sister has no Credentials in Domestic Affairs.

You had noticed a lot of Disrespectful Behaviours against leaders and Relatives. You had noticed her stubbornness and Arrogance and stiffneckedness. Yet, you ignored all these, you never made any corrections. You never took any steps to groom the future Bride.

And the few moment you had Attempted to correct her, She had put up a terrible resistance that took you many days to apologize. YET YOU DID NOT KNOW THAT YOU WERE BEING SHOWN RED FLAGS.

Sister, you had seen this brother on many occassion eyeing other Sisters. You had read many of his text messages to some strange Sisters and on each occassion you accosted him, he kept on apologizing.

He told a lot of lies as a Christian.And you knew these! SINCE YOU REMAINED IN IT AND WENT ON WITH IT, IT MEANS YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY CONVINCED, IT THE WILL OF GOD FOR YOU.

NOW YOU MARRIED. NOW HE BORE OUT HIS FULL FANGS. NOW YOU MARRIED HER. AND SHE CAME OUT IN HER FULL COLOUR. YOU NOW CALL IT ABUSE! Some people are now Teaching you how to Walk Away From the marriage.!

What Does This Verse of The Scripture Mean To You….?
Malachi 2:16 NKJV
[16] “For the LORD God of Israel says That He hates divorce, For it covers one’s garment with violence,” Says the LORD of hosts. “Therefore take heed to your spirit, That you do not deal treacherously.”

IS THERE NEED FOR PATIENCE? Be Patience. IS THERE A NEED FOR ENDURANCE? Endure, With Prayers and Doing the right things, it has an End. IS THERE A NEED FOR YOU TO LOOK INWARD FOR THINGS YOU OUGHT TO DO? Prayerfully look inward.

DOES HE WANT TO KILL YOU? Seek Counsel. #mikebamiloye
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