Evang. Mike Bamiloye of Mount Zion Faith Ministries has taken to social media to speak on some of the reasons marriages nowadays are finding it hard to
According to him, some ladies have the wrong plans for their marriages after they have absorbed some teachings that have set them up to challenge the authority of their husbands.
He noted that he’s aware many of his followers will counter his teachings on submission but his 35 years of marriage is not just a number but a long season of experience strong enough to make him give advice to young couples who longed for a lasting marriage. He added that the financial incapability of a man is not enough to shift his position as the head of a household. SEE HIS FULL POST BELOW
“Many marriages of our youths have crumbled before the Day of Solemnization at the Altar. Time-Bombs have been set and placed in their homes ever before they said “I Do”. False Teachers have taught the ladies to walk against the Word of God!
They have taught them to get ready to play the role of the head. Many ladies who have adopted their principles and teachings are going into the Marriage DEFENSIVELY, getting ready to jet out at the slightest rocking of the Boat.
Their teachings place undue emphasis on materials and physical possessions. How can you say that if your husband can not provide for the basic domestic needs of the house, he is not fit to be a husband. What about the Storms of life? What about trials of life?
How can you say that a man who is been fed by his wife ought not to be a husband? What about if after the wedding the call of God come upon the man and the wife is the only one now working for the whole family?
I know some young women who are hooked by this strange teachings will take me up now and attack me, but listen to me, I am talking the truth to you. And I am talking to you from a 35 years of successful Marriage experience.
Don’t listen to any Preacher who does not teach you how to be Sacrificial and Patience￼￼ in marriage. ASK THEM TOO.
If they were not Sacrificial and Patient in their Marriage, will they still have their husbands? They talk as if there is a trials and tension and the man is not able to put things on table as a particular time, he has lost his value.
Today, many Divorces and Separations are hitting the marriages of many young Christian Couples. Many young women don’t listen to their husbands any more, they have been taught that they too have an Authority, that it doesn’t resides on man alone anymore.
SUBMISSIVENESS has now become strange to them. It is like an abomination. If it were possible, they would have removed it from the Bible. I am not in support of husbands who take their wives for granted.
I am not talking for husbands who turn their wives to slaves or punching bags, those ones are not Responsible Men. They are walking against the Word of God. I am speaking to Daughters of Zion who are being deceived by doctrines of the devil. #mikebamiloye”