We have been talking about the will of God in marriage and that it can only be revealed by God to you when you trust God because He knows what he wants to do with your life. He created you for his own purpose.
That is one of the major reason you can’t just marry anyone but God’s appointed woman or man for your life
Another very important reason you must marry the will of God is to destroy the plan of the devil against God’s agenda for this end time.
Romans 8:19 KJVS For the earnest expectation of the creature waiteth for the manifestation of the sons of God.
We are in the end time when the sons of God will manifest .God is raising up his children for the end time harvest. It was said in the book of Joel 2:28
And it shall come to pass afterward, that I will pour out my spirit upon all flesh; and your sons and your daughters shall prophesy, your old men shall dream dreams, your young men shall see visions:
The spirit of God is being poured upon all flesh and our sons and daughter shall prophesy. They shall speak and minister the word of God in power to bring many souls to the kingdom . Young men will see vision, visions of great assignments for the expansion of God’s kingdom. Our sons and daughters will become God’s mouth piece
This is already happening as young men and women are being called to do great exploits for God . Many of them are in various ministries using their gifts to bring souls to the kingdom
The young men are not supposed to carry the vision alone ,they need helpers most specially the young women that God has prepared for them to marry .That is why it is important for them to discover their purpose and be determined to fulfill it.
But the devil is always standing at this junction of marriage to lure them away from the will of God. He does this by planting some young women and men who are his agents to target those with great visions.
Their mission is to frustrate and confused them from fulfilling the purpose of God when they are married to them
His plan is to hinder their manifestation and get their vision terminated as they get married to any of such people because they are vision killers..
It is also important to know that some vision killers may not be agents of the devil, he or she may be ordinary Christian who is not ready to support the vision you carry or may not be prepared for you. Whoever God will give you to marry must have been prepared by God for you .
God who called you into the ministry will surely give you a helper. As God is preparing you for whatever he wants to do though you, he is also preparing your helper of destiny, (the woman or man that will help you carry the vision)
Anyone that will manifest God’s glory needs a vision carrier .That is why you cannot just marry anyone even when the person is born again.
You must determine to marry a child of God that God has prepared and appointed for you.
For instance, there are many young ladies in the family of Abraham but there was an appointed lady for Isaac to marry and that was what the servant of Abraham asked from God. Just like there are many children of God in the body of Christ, but you must ask God for whoever God has prepared for you if you desire to fulfill your destiny in peace.
Are you sure the sister or brother you are engaged to presently can face the future with you?. He or She may be born again and tongue talking ,but can the person carry the vision with you . Are you convinced in your spirit the person is ready for the journey, or is the brother or sister you are about to marry have any interest in what you believe God is calling you to do.?
Think about it before you go further in the relationship.
Jesus talked about whoever intends to build a house , that he must be sure he has enough to finish the building
Luke 14:28 KJVS For which of you, intending to build a tower, sitteth not down first, and counteth the cost, whether he have sufficient to finish it ?
It means in marriage you don’t use faith to marry someone or to enter into a relationship you are not sure of God’s leading. This is because God sees beyond now, he sees your future
When someone you are engaged to is against your vision or your strong desire to fulfill the purpose of God,, you need to go back to God and hear very well
Holy Spirit sometimes may choose to reveal the true condition of the person to you, because the person may not be sincere but has his/her own hidden agenda .
You don’t use faith therefore to still go ahead with such a person thinking you can easily manage the situation after wedding.
That is the way some people settle with someone that has nothing to offer or contribute to their lives and ministries because they thought they can cope, they thought they can handle whatever happen latter in marriage .Perhaps because they thought they have enough faith. They fail to know that faith will only work in obedience to God’s leading and direction.
Can two walk together except they be agreed. Amos 3:3.
Holy Spirit will always speak because he is interested in you having the right marriage partner more than you do. But many have ignored the check the Holy spirit is given them at that crucial moment of choice
When you begin to have some check in your spirit concerning the person you are engaged to or the person you intend to propose to, it is very important to wait upon the Lord for more light and be very sure before you go ahead. God may speak ones, but you must keep hearing until you are sure of his leading
No man is perfect but our perfection is in Christ whoever is the will of God for your life will be interested to help you fulfill the purpose of God, because that is the reason for marriage .
Some young men and women have missed their moment of manifestation because of wrong marriage partners, while many young ladies with great potentials to carry great vision of God have released their glorious crown to some visionless men.
The time of manifestation is now, and God is about to manifest his sons. They will do great exploits, they will be strong, they will fly and run because God will work wonders through them.
Marriage should not be a stumbling block to your manifestation if you wait patiently for God., because if you marry outside the will of God, the plan of God for your life may be hindered.
LET US PRAY:
Father Lord. We pray for all our young men and women that they will not fall into the hands of vision killers .
They will not be deceived by the agents of the devil ,they will not fall into the hand of Delilah who will scrape their anointing
Every plan of the enemy to confuse our singles brothers and sisters is destroyed in Jesus name
If anyone is wrongly engaged among them already ,
we stop such union or relationship in the name of Jesus
For the sake of the vision. and for the sake of. the souls that are attach to their vision. and for the sake of your glorious plans for them this end time and most importantly ,for the sake of heaven,Please arise and put an end to any union that is not from you in Jesus name.
We send back to sender every arrow of confusion the enemy is sending to them. In the name of Jesus.
For all the marriageable. brothers and sisters. Father ,settle them NOW in Jesus name .
Open the eyes of your sons to see and discover your will for their lives and Let your daughters be found by the right men
To all our singles brothers and sisters. …
you will not make mistake
You will not fall into wrong hands
The Lord will settle you and give you a sure house in Jesus name . Amen
Published By: Ifeoluwa ORISAKAHUNSI
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