How to choose the right marriage partner (Part 4) – Gloria Bamiloye

Please don’t read this if you have not read the first part. Read Part 3 here!

The purpose of God for your life will enable you to see clearly and to walk in the light.

1 Corinthians 7:32 KJVS[32] But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord:

This is one major purpose of God for every single brother and sister. You are to take care of God’s business. You are to keep yourself for the Lord by flee from every pollution. You must not be lazy but to ask God where he wants you to function in his service,and what he wants you to do for the expansion of Gods kingdom .

The talents and gifts inside of you must be used for Gods work . It is for souls and God will be glorified when you bear much fruits .

That is how to care for the things of God. You care for the things of God first by taking care of your body for God because he lives in you. You are God’s temple. God will work through you and so your body must be preserved and be holy for God .

You also care for the things of God by your desire to serve God wherever you are. When you ask God, he will show you things he wants you to do

In the process of taking care of the things of God., your vision will be clearer .. You will see vision of the assignment God actually has for you.

Joel 2:28. And it shall come to pass afterward, that I will pour out my spirit upon all flesh; and your sons and your daughters shall prophesy, your old men shall dream dreams, your young men shall see visions:.

The spirit of God has been poured out upon all flesh including you . You will grow in the Lord and in as you run with it


God did not tell you to seek for who to marry . And do not make the mistake some made by trying to think somebody may be your partner because you are both involve in some ministerial assignment or because of certain gifts in the life of the person .

You must not marry or look for marriage partner base upon that mind

Having the same gifts. Serving together in the ministry does not qualify someone as your marriage partner .

Psalm 32:8. ,I will instruct thee and teach thee in the way which thou shalt go: I will guide thee with mine eye.

That is why you don’t look around for who to marry ,you don’t seek for the person or you will choose in your understanding .

That a sister is fervent does not mean she is the will of God for you because you don’t actually know her and she may belong to someone else . Many have base their choice of partner on this.and it is not perfect

Proverbs 3:5 KJVS[5] Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.

Your God given assignment is to take care of Gods thing and allow God to lead you and to he right person for your life .

leave the matter in God’s hand and relax in him and you will see clearly

. Psalm 32:8. I will instruct thee and teach thee in the way which thou shalt go: I will guide thee with mine eye.

Always remember you are a spirit being and once you have given your life to Jesus. His spirit is in you ,so you must listen to his spirit and not be what you see ..Only God who created you knows the right person for you among his children.

Your partner may be very close to you and may also be far, but as long as the person is a child of God he or she is in the family of God .. You have the same Father and your heavenly father knows how to connect you together as you rest on him.

God who made you know the best person for you ,he knows the man or woman that will complement you. The only thing you must constantly pray about as you seek his kingdom is for the will of God .

The will of God is the person God has for your life, is the person you will both serve God together. Must be the person that love your God and care for the things of God the way you did. And it is God that knows the person.

Somebody may be active physically. in the things of God ,but may not be sincere. And a person may also be very active and sincere. God alone knows the heart of men . That is why you need to rest and trust him to lead you to the right person the way the servant of Abraham did before he entered the city

Genesis 24

He called on God of Abraham to send the woman He has appointed for his master’s son and God sent Rebecca.

The will of God is the right marriage partner for you, the will of God will complement you