- A) TO FULFILL THE PURPOSE OF GOD.
If you are sure you are going to marry. then you must determine to marry right because of the Plan of God for your life that must be fulfilled.
God. has purpose for every marriage and that is why every child of God must seek God and wait on Him for the right partner in marriage. Every godly marriage has an assignment to do for the expansion of God’s kingdom and God depends more on the home of his children to carry out his purpose on earth.
Young men will see vision. but they are not meant to carry the vision alone ,they need helpers that will assists them in the fulfillment of the vision That was why God provided a helper for Adam while he was busy working in the. garden.
Genesis 2:15,18 KJVS
 And the Lord God took the man, and put him into the garden of Eden to dress it and to keep it.
 And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.
Sarah follow Abraham to the land God promised to give him while Joseph was there to help Mary with the vision of God she carried .in her womb.
Every man or woman needs a vision carrier, a helper in life because every young-men and woman has an assignment to carry out for God. They are meant to do great exploits than their fathers. Abraham was great, but Isaac was exceedingly great.
The fathers may not fully see the fulfillment of the blessing and promises God made for them like in the case of Abraham but the seed has been reserved by God for the continuity of the covenant. That was why Abraham personally supervised the marriage of his son because he knew Isaac was not complete without his helper. And the helper must be the right lady that God has prepared for his son, not just any one.
The servant of Abraham that was sent called on God to sent the appointed one which God did .
Genesis 24:14 KJVS
 And let it come to pass, that the damsel to whom I shall say, Let down thy pitcher, I pray thee, that I may drink; and she shall say, Drink, and I will give thy camels drink also: let the same be she that thou hast appointed for thy servant Isaac; and thereby shall I know that thou hast shewed kindness unto my master.
Some things may not be possible in a man’s life ( male or female ) if he misses the will of God. So many young men and women have lost their beautiful and glorious destiny at the junction of marriage because they have been wrongly hooked
The reasons why Satan always waits at this junction of marriage to confused and distract the singles and hinder the plan of God for their lives.
There is a purpose of God for your life you will fulfill with your partner. Whatever you are doing before you marry is to prepare you for the real thing.
The journey to the top in the fulfillment of your vision will be easy when you get married in the will of God . It is then your home will be a blessing.
This is because whoever God will give you will not be a stranger to the vision. God must have prepared the person because he or she will be your helper of destiny
B) YOU WILL BE BOLD TO FACE THE FUTURE
Getting married in the perfect will of God will give you the assurance of the future because you have involved God in your choice of partner. You will be bold to face the future because he is in charge and nothing is too difficult for him to handle. You will also be bold to come into his presence in case of any storm on the way because Jesus is right in the boat with you.
Going ahead of him is when you chose in your wisdom.
It is a very risky thing to do because you cannot handle the future alone. God owns your future he knows what he wants to do with your life which can only be revealed to you as you trust and follow him. And because of that he must have prepared someone for you that will make the journey interesting for you.
Knowing God as your father is a great treasure you must guide jealously and you must determine not to lose the confidence you have in God.
Just like the way the earthly father cares for his child, God does the same for his children who will trust and believe him.
When I was single, I have this strong confidence in God that I Will not miss the will of God. I always imagine that God will give me my own husband at the appointed time
So this gave me strong confidence to keep serving him because I was sure he will tell me when the time comes and that was what God did.
When you rest in God and allow him into your decision making, you have called him into your union. That is a home or. Marriage that is build upon the rock
Published By: Ifeoluwa ORISAKAHUNSI