Even though trying to spend long years to know someone is understandable, Solomon Buchi noted that getting married requires a level of faith.
He said you shouldn’t date someone for too long to get to know them since marriage will reveal how little you really know them.
In his words: “You can never know your partner too well before marriage. No matter how long you date, marriage will shock you. You’ll see sides to them that you never saw in your 10 years of dating.
I understand trying to spend long years to know someone before marriage, but getting married requires a level of FAITH.
It requires a little bit of uncertainty; after all, is life itself not uncertain? Even in marriage, your partner evolves per stage. Who they were before childbirth is different from who they’ll be after childbirth.
Stop dating for too long because you want to know the person well; marriage will teach you how much you don’t know them, and why you should patiently study them.
Please, just marry and face the dynamic reality of marriage. It’s a consistent learning curve.”